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To each their own
(/To each their own/)
Everyone
has a right to have different preferences or make different choices.
"I personally wouldn't have chosen
such a flashy car, but to each his own."
A: "It's a bit of a guilty pleasure, but I really love watching cheesy horror movies."
B: "Hey, to each their own. I'm not going to judge you for that."
Certainly, this is one of the rules that we should follow when
discussing someone else's taste in music. There are various factors
and reasons why we enjoy the music that we enjoy but what are they
and are they valid?
Popularity
Some people ponder
that popular music (not the genre) is good music. Personally, this is
not valid but also not wrong. There are different reasons why a
song/artist became popular: successful promotion strategies, being
influential in some way, being featured in a movie/commercial or
being shared with the listeners' family/friends (or even strangers).
Not every song or artist that gained popularity in such way is
considered being "good". This is because there are many
musicians that are successful at their work but their career has, for
example, promotional gaps which lead to smaller renown and therefore,
the idea of popularity being a valid reason for the music always
being favorable is improper.
Whatever
In this world
with various people with various interests, we may encounter a type
of person that doesn't care about music at all. They do not value
anything about it: the emotions, the meaning, nothing. This is quite
unacceptable today by most of the society but actually.. this is
quite understandable. This is comparable to disregarding sport. There
are people who are very passionate about it and enjoy everything
about the idea of it but there are people who hate it and do not see
anything pleasurable in this interest. And that's why distinctiveness
present in every single creature is a good trait - life would be
boring if we would all be the same. Of course we should respect that
there are people who exceedingly adore certain interests but also we
should respect the ones that don't.
Age
Assuredly,
we can experience a kind of a human being that only enjoys music
released from a certain time period. This happens because of the idea
that modern music is effortless, less enjoyable, repetitive and lacks
exceptionality. We can clearly see on the website Album of the Year -
a website that aggregates reviews of music releases - on the list of best albums of the 1990s from the user ratings that there are 13
albums that received an average score above or 90 out of 100 from
more than 400 ratings, while on the other side, on the list of best albums of the 2010s there are only 3 albums that are rated above or
90 out of 100 of which two belong to Kendrick Lamar and one to Kanye
West. On the other hand, some people could consider old music
unfavorable and one of the reasons why they hold that perspective is
because of the fact that technology was less advanced back then thus,
mixing and mastering was worse executed when compared to 2010s music.
In their eyes, those two processes are necessary to provide an
enjoyable experience while listening to music as this controls the
"quality" of the music to some extent.
Field
This
type of person only listens to one genre or one family of genres.
They do not tolerate any other types of music as they find them
unbearable. There are numerous reasons why that happens, one of which
is the familiarity and being brought up with this kind of music.
Humans' minds enjoy receptivity as well as familiar sounds, some
could consider them even nostalgic. When this closed field of
acquaintance with a fence is crossed, the person feels unsafe,
unsure, repulsed and probably to some extent disgusted. When this
person gets used to hearing the techniques, motifs and such musical
behavior, they get to enjoy this kind of music even more and
gradually, the fence surrounding the field is gradually unmounted.
This is the way that I opened myself into enjoying different kinds of
electronic music as well as experimental and psychedelic that to some
people struggle to feel delighted with. If you feel like you're this
kind of music listener, you should try to get used to and understand
other genres because this is only a pleasurable experience that will
make your knowledge about music even broader.
Opinions
There
is a group of people that greatly care about others' opinions. An
example of people that this type of listeners opinions cares about
could be members of family. They care about every sentence that the
family member mentions about the artist/song/album and usually
over-analyzes the words spoken. This kind of behavior at times leads
to disgust with the artist/song/album just because of the opinion.
The same reaction could apply to various music-related aggregating
websites that add users' ratings of certain release together and the
total is averaged, setting an image of what is a bad and a good
album, when comparing a release to other ones. On the other hand, it
is a good idea because it helps with approximately identifying what
the audience enjoys more and what less as the score is a summary of
what some part of the audience thinks of the release because not
every single person who listened to the release has actually rated
the album on any of those websites and ultimately, it shouldn't
always be followed because of course, to each their own.
Denouement
Every
single person is different and as a wise human kind, we should
tolerate, respect and even try to understand the differences and why
people enjoy the differences, rather than reject every single idea
about a certain belief or preference.
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